Glory to Jesus Christ!
Kurt: This has nothing to do with the zealotry of former Latins. I am a cradle Byzantine, my wife is a cradle Byzantine, the rest of my immediate family are cradle Byzantines, and we are so frustrated, angry, disappointed, and -- worst of all -- saddened that we are about to leave this Church.
The fact is, it's not really just a "discipline" matter. It goes to the heart of how we are to understand Roman primacy. And, ecclesiology -- at least for us in the East -- has much to do with our understanding of God and his relationship to the world. Furthermore, for the West married clergy is a doctrinal concern (they seem to read only Paul's recommendation that one not marry, ignoring his insistence on the holiness of marriage -- see 1 Cor 7): being married is somehow seen as meaning that you are less of a priest. Without saying so explicitly, the Roman Church implies the illegitimacy of married priests.
Your reference to negative rights and positive rights is correct. I don't view married clergy in the Byzantine Catholic Church as a matter of our autonomy: we are autonomous, but that's not the point. Our "positive right" to a capable clergy is, in part, being denied. I have personally spoken with a few young men who seemed to have a priestly vocation. In the end, however, it was celibacy that turned them away.
Yes, we should seek to create a better community. I think that is what all of us in this forum want. But do you really believe that that is possible under the present circumstances? The Roman Church (of which we are really just a subsidiary) works on a model of top-down power, not bottom-up authority. This ecclesiological model has the practical effect of denying real community. That is Rome's chief sin.
Relaxing the special norms? If this were really to happen, shouldn't the original form of our particular law -- "marriage is no longer an impediment to holy orders" -- have been accepted and promulgated? That is truly a relaxation of Cum Data Fuerit and Ea Semper. Don't kid yourself; nothing has changed and it never will.
A wait and see attitude? Isn't that what we've been doing for the last twenty years? NO -- that's not good enough any longer. If anything is going to happen, the people -- the laity, the ones who really need good priests and not just the social rejects we often end up with, who are ordained for the simple reason that they accept celibacy as opposed to positively undertaking the monastic life -- the people need to take positive steps. We need to make our bishops resign; we need to make clear to the Eastern Congregation that we are not happy with the present clergy and that we deserve -- for the sake of our spiritual health -- good, intelligent, caring priests, married or not. We don't want priests who just want power or wish to join an exclusive club.
I am someone who had to make a choice some time ago -- do I want to share my life with someone, do I want and need someone (and, of course, not just anyone) to help me in my journey towards True Life? Or do I want to serve God's people as a presbyter, do I want to help others in their journey? Why should I have been forced into such a choice? Yes, I can still do the latter -- but hardly with the effectiveness I would otherwise possess had I attended seminary. I don't want my sons (God-willing) to have to face the same choice. There is too much unecessary spiritual pain involved.
Lance: You are wrong: the law does prohibit married men from receiving holy orders. The "special norms" of the Apostolic See are contained within Cum Data Fuerit and Ea Semper -- the decretals that put an end to married clergy in the Eastern Catholic Church in the Americas.
Oh, yes -- let's wait for it to be revised! Let's wait for the Church to prepare for married clergy! Come on -- those arguments about practicality are nonsense. The people want a married clergy, they realize it is their tradition. If they need to, they will provide for it. Raise the bar, and people will reach it; or do you, like our bishops and all others who peddle this idiotic argument, have such little confidence in the goodness of people?
It's not a question of going slower -- it's a question of GOING BACKWARD. We are not a Catholic Church sui iuris, as we have all grown very fond of pointing out to our Orthodox brethren. No, we are part of the Roman Catholic Church, subject to the will and whim of the Pope and the College of Cardinals. This proves it. Light from the East? Seems to me Rome controls the switch.
Rick: Please... this has nothing to do with being American. I've wanted this since I was twelve, and I've been willing to wait. Others have been waiting for 60 years. If anything, we've been too patient. Suffering may be redemptive, but this is just too much -- mostly because it's unnecessary suffering.
To all others who advised a "wait-and-see" attitude some months ago: Don't be embarrassed -- it's just the way it is and will always be. Your faith is admirable. I'm just sorry you have been so disappointed.
Andrew, Judson, and the rest must go the way of Spyridon! Let's finally learn something from the Greeks.
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Yours in Christ,
Theophilos
[This message has been edited by theophilos (edited 10-01-1999).]