I envy you Ed.
I really do.
See, not only am I a
bona fide Greek Catholic who is not as certain of these broad-stroke painted accusations and pontifications that you present based on the genuinely close relationship you must enjoy with your dear aunt, I am not anywhere near so lucky as to be so very close to my own dear aunt who serves as my godmother.
I don't know if I am too easy too please, because I am too grateful to have returned to the practice of the faith after years of absense in utter and despondant hedonism and indifference. Maybe I return so hungry that the sub-par cooking of the meal simply doesn't bother me. Someone as spiritually starved as I would have, to mix a metaphor, eaten sandwhiches with moldy bread and been pleased to have them.
But inasmuch as my parish enjoys the leadership of a priest humbly focused on God, an enthusiastic deacon, one or two deacon candidates, several cantors - some born GC, others converts, and a small but stable congregation that seems to achieve a level of prayer weekly and keeps coming back... Well inasmuch as I see all this some of the vitriol associated with the RDL & on outsiders observations about our liturgical praxis is cause for much head-scratching on my part. What am I missing that hasn't caused me to suffer so?
Again I am humbled by your situation. Again, not only are you far, far, far closer to your aunt than I am to any of mine (I am not confident that I actually know any of their middle names!)... But she sounds like an amazingly insightful woman who is able to knowingly analyze our great and forboding problems and then communicate them to a nephew (who is not a Greek Catholic) far better than this simple sinner who has attended our seminary and discussed our situation on and off the record with his classmates who serve as priests throughout the metropolia for hours on end.
(I must confess that my own aunt who is also my godmother has expressed dissatisfaction that 25+ years of being the parish gradeschool secratary has left her at times slightly resentful of her compensation in light of some added responsibilities coupled with knowledge of increased parish revenue. Still...)
Really, for that closeness you have achieved and her insightfulness that you pass on (you must take notes!) I am almost jealous. It is an odd sort of consolation to me that I am not actually jealous, because she sounds - to hear you tell it, and from your observations - terribly unhappy and without hope.
Where I am and in my parish, I simply don't suffer that outlook.
So when you come here as an outsider, time and time and time again, relying on the data you have meticulously collected from your aunt (I don't know mine's middle name, you seem to know all the metropolia-wide zeitgeist of your aunt's church. I do remember my aunt's confirmation name for some reason: Agnes)... Well for having that link that has allowed you to pontificate on our church such things as:
As I tell my aunt, the Byzantine Catholic Church is NOT fully Byzantine as they claim. It is a hybrid church, confused, and with a lack of identity.
You garnered that from talking with your aunt?
One day, Catholic; next day, Orthodox. St. Gregory is in, is out, is in, is out, on the calendar, off, on, off, on ... It is not my hobby horse if your church ignores its own people and doesn't care if they stop singing they way they have since coming to America. It is not my hobby horse if there is a built-in confusion, whether it be theology, ministry or the understanding of Scripture.
Again, second hand from her, you have a full understanding of what is going on with our calendar, our psyche, our self understanding...
Your hymnal leaves this Sunday blank. Have you known the Byzantine Church to leave ANY day blank? The BCC has nothing to say about one of the greatest saints theologians in its own official hymnal.
Where do you get this? In the parish I came of age in I don't think I ever saw a dye in the wool Greek Catholic pick up a pew book, bring their own missal, or actually even look at any books. The moveable parts were in the bulletin, the cantors handled them masterfully. Your reading into the metropolia-wide cultural and psychological significans of the pew books - which in our parish even with the RDL collect dust till a visitor wipes it off - is odd and disconnected to the reality I am so many of us have known.
What *Catholic circles* is SGP recognized as a saint? Certainly not your shepherds; and this is where it really counts.
Even a little archival searching (admittedly sometimes a challenge with this forum program) is going to reveal how this has been a non-issue since I think 1971 when Rome approved the Melkite commemorations. Orthodox-Catholic has provided background for which of the UGCC bishops lead the way in restoring commemoration. This has been covered. And covered again. And covered some more.
If I revisit it; if my aunt revisits it; if any other BC visits it; it is because it is not visited by those who matter the most. I detect an embarassment, not a defense of orthodoxy. The people, the clergy, and the monastics are not on the same page as their shepherds. Last week was the first time my aunt's church did not have a procession with icons (a favorite custom of theirs). She doesn't knowh why.
So you, or she in turn reporting to you, should ask. The knowing inferences you draw don't seem nearly as obvious to some of us. She doesn't know why? You don't know why? Get in your car, get on the phone, shoot off an email and ask. The embarassment you detect, I just can't for the life of me see.
Something about it being the Sunday of Orthodoxy (the *O* word). The word *Orthodox(y)* was not used at all. No one brought icons either. They remembered the Sunday of Images without images! I ask to see if there are answers, but cannot makes sense and have nothing to off my dear aunt as an explanation.
We used the "O" word in my parish. Just curious, what do you think it means in that context? Have you called your aunt's pastor to ask about this?
Their singing was taken from them and a different style was enforced and everyone is mum. When they approach the priest about it, he runs away.
What can be said about this? You present as fact what you have heard second or third hand and then pontificate and opine on it, what can we say? It is a classical unanswerable question/assertion.
People are beginning to feel guilty of being Byzantine Christian.
Not me, Ed. Not me.
I am hesitant to write this and post it if for no other reason than it is time consuming and the last time we went round for round on these and similar matters related to your opinions on what has been told you by your aunt in an undisclosed location with an undisclosed priest lead to me being publicly rebuked by a moderator who assured me he had received numerous complaints that I was "shouting down" (???) parties on ByzCath when during that time the bulk of my postings were (long) responses to your pontifications.
I am damned if I do, damned if I don't. I can leave unchallenged your damning allegations from second had sources (as you report it) and just smile... or I can spend too much time trying to respond.
The reason this strikes me, and the folks who send me private messages, as a hobby horse is that you seem to avail yourself of opportunities to be so very critical of us as a group. A group to which you do not belong and (to hear you tell it) get your info from a relative.
(One of my private interlocutors puts it well:)
I'm glad to see I'm not the only one reading his posts and wondering why he makes such a point of repeatedly slamming the Byzantine church on behalf of random relatives of his. I don't understand why it's such a big deal with him since it isn't his church; if it was his church, I'd wonder why he bothered and would think about suggesting he find a new church.
So Ed, maybe spend a year or two worshipping with us, attending events, meeting more of us, moving around a bit more.
Otherwise it is really hard in good faith to not see a lot of the stuff you write in the fashion that you write it as a provocation and hobby horse.
The constant leit motivs of putting us down as embarassed, confused, and not "Byzantine enough", (By Ed Hash's standards???)reading into your assesment of SGP's position in our liturgical life, it is all very tiring and sad.
Again, I celebrate your closeness with your aunt. I have never been so close to mine that I would feel comfortable garnering from her all that is wrong with her church and then coming online to a forum to share my understanding of their error.
Bless you and your aunt.