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Father, I have begged and pleaded and repeatedly asked for a moratorium on passionate subjects during Great Lent, only to find the Faith to be attacked whist occupied with Post. Now that my passions have been inflamed in defense of the Faith, it will result in a long discussion with my starets. And once again, now that the air has been cleared, can we please go back to Great Lent and postpone idle talk until after Pascha?

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Originally Posted by PrJ
At times like this, I remember a saying of my very pious grandmother who used to remind me when I would get upset -- "Remember, you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar!"

I would hope that our words while honest would contain enough honey to attract the flies of this world!

As one who spends most of his life discussing these kinds of issues with today's secular youth, I can tell you that there is very little that pushes them further from the Faith than when they hear Christians fighting each other and calling each other names.

I would hate to stand before God on that Great and Final Day (that our liturgical texts this Lent talk so much about) and have to answer for the souls of those whom I have turned away from the Faith because of my harsh words towards fellow Christians. Remember, it was our Lord who reminded us that we shall have to give an account for every idle word.

And ... that reminds me of a Lenten prayer: "O Lord take from me the spirit of sloth, despair, lust of power and idle talk!"


Dear Father,

Thank you for those beautiful words and a beautiful post.

We prostrate ourselves after those final words many times during Lent...I pray with all my heart that all here will try to keep the worshipful gestures accompanied by those powerful words of St. Ephraim's prayer true to our hearts and souls.

Having just come from the Great Compline service at my church, I am very saddened tonight with the forum.

I bow in humility and reverence to your solid pastoral guidance. Thank you again for it.

In Christ's love,
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If there are individuals who have a problem with what I have posted, perhaps they should be man enough to confront me directly, rather than running to the moderators like school children.

Dear Alexander,

I was hoping to refrain from posting, but this thread has become so heated, I just can't help myself.

I don't agree with your viewpoints...at all! I have found the Catholics willing to discuss their problems freely, while the Orthodox tend to become super sensitive. A little insecurity there...maybe? confused

I do agree though with what you said about those crying to the moderators. You know our Lord said, that we are to judge the tree by the fruit it bears. Taking that into account, cronic complainers are not a very good reflection on whatever denomination, jurisdiction or what not they belong to. Neither is 'elitism' or 'triumphism'. So it is understandable when a moderator prefers to 'moderate', rather than use other methods.

As for me, I prefer 'reasoning', which I equate with Christian 'love'. Anything else, would be reacting to one's 'passions'.

Have a fruitful fast, and please calm down. Remember, you are a reflection of your Church. wink

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If there are individuals who have a problem with what I have posted, perhaps they should be man enough to confront me directly, rather than running to the moderators like school children.

Dear Alexander,

I was hoping to refrain from posting, but this thread has become so heated, I just can't help myself.

I don't agree with your viewpoints...at all! I have found the Catholics willing to discuss their problems freely, while the Orthodox tend to become super sensitive. A little insecurity there...maybe? confused

I do agree though with what you said about those crying to the moderators. You know our Lord said, that we are to judge the tree by the fruit it bears. Taking that into account, cronic complainers are not a very good reflection on whatever denomination, jurisdiction or what not they belong to. Neither is 'elitism' or 'triumphism'. So it is understandable when a moderator prefers to 'moderate', rather than use other methods.

As for me, I prefer 'reasoning', which I equate with Christian 'love'. Anything else, would be reacting to one's 'passions'.

Have a fruitful fast, and please calm down. Remember, you are a reflection of your Church. wink

Zenovia

As an Orthodox Christian he is also serving a a guardian of our church!

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Zenovia, though I know for a fact I don't see eye to eye with Alexandr on all things, I must say I disagree strongly with your assessment of him. Nor do I agree with your assessment of the other Orthodox Christians on the board (myself included I am assuming).

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My impression is the administrators are not simply biased in favor of Orthodoxy, and that there are some rather specific reasons why threads get closed. I'm fairly certain that is the case with a recent thread I'm thinking of.

Contrary to that your rather insidious perception of the moderators, in my view they are closing threads that tend to draw undue tension during Lent.

I'm confused, my perception of the moderators is not at all that they have insidious motives. Quite the contrary. I thought I was saying that in my original statement. ?????

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Originally Posted by Brian
Bill, when I was received into the OCA, i did not make the denunciations of my Catholic Faith but a positive affirmation of Orthodox Faith

Brian, pick up the Trebnik and refer back to the part when you went to the back of the church and renounced Satan and then as a Roman Catholic seeking entrance into the Orthodox church you publically professed to no longer subscribe to certain Catholic dogmas, such as papal supremacy. Even the one thing, renouncing publically the Catholic mandate of accepting papal supremacy is DENOUNCING your Roman Catholic/Byzantine Catholic church membership.

Alexandr, do you have a trebnik on hand to help out? I don't have them handy.

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Originally Posted by rcguest
I've noticed threads being closed lately when the views of the Orthodox Churches, or should I say monasteries, regarding ecumenism and relations with the Catholic Church come into question.

Almost twenty tears ago I went through a period of discernment between Catholicism and Orthodoxy.

I corresponded cordially for some time with a couple of monks at an Orthodox monastery here in the U.S. who told me their monastery carries on the rule, beliefs and faith of the monasteries of Mount Athos. The monk's final correspondence with me came in the form of a rather large packet of literature and information citing the errors of Catholicism and ecumenism in general. They told me in no uncertain terms I must disavow the Catholic Church in order to embrace Orthodoxy. Needless to say I was unwilling to deny the Catholic Church in order to be "O"rthodox and I remain a Catholic today.

I post this because I see threads which sometimes seem to me to be critical of the Catholic Church and its positions, beliefs and/or praxis go on unabated but a topic such as this regarding Orthodoxy gets closed rather quickly.

I realize we are now well into Lent/Great Fast and I do not wish to disrupt but fair is fair.

In Christ,
Bill

Bill,
For curiousity sake which Orthodox monastery did this opinion come from? Refer up to my previous post about the rites of initiation in the Orthodox church and the renounciation of the affliiation with Rome and the dogmas that differ than the Orthodox. You can not be Catholic (Roman/Byzantine) and Orthodox at the same time. You must adhere to the teachings of your church and if you do not then you have seperated yourself from the church. So if I as an Orthodox person accepted papal supremacy or created grace or the immaculate conception I would have seperated myself from the Orthodox Church. Likewise if a Catholic, no matter what Rite you practice, does not accept papal supremacy or any other canon law then indeed you have seperated yourself from the Catholic Church (Roman/Byzantine).

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This is my last post on this thread. I agree with Alice, Father Anthony, and Alexandr that these topics are just distracting and I am sorry for my contribution to any strife caused. Have mercy on me.

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Zenovia, though I know for a fact I don't see eye to eye with Alexandr on all things, I must say I disagree strongly with your assessment of him. Nor do I agree with your assessment of the other Orthodox Christians on the board (myself included I am assuming).

Dear Andrew,

I didn't make any assessment of Alexander, (I love you Alexander), wink other than the passions he displayed in one of his posts. I just believe the Orthodox in 'general' are hyper-sensitive on this forum. They shouldn't be!

Hmmm! Maybe the fast is getting to us. I hope we're all taking our vitamins. smile

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Zenovia, maybe that's the case. I concur with Joe that this probably isn't doing me much good!

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Zenovia,

We are not being hypersensitive as you may perceive, but representing what is actually Orthodox praxis. This not a "love fest" in which we all must subscribe to syncratic teachings and beliefs. I believe that this one of things that was addressed by the early councils.

Father Anthony+


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May I make a suggestion to all here? I don't want to lock this topic, because I know that many feel that doing this too often is stifling, (though I will do it if these misunderstandings continue)-- so how about we all divert our post writing right now to praying for others on the Prayer Forum? Praying for others is something we are all called to do, especially at Lent, as a charitable act.

I guarantee that it will make you feel better that you are actually helping others in offering your sympathy, compassion, love and prayers to God on another's behalf. Trust me, the prayers of the good people who do give of themselves on that forum are MOST helpful and efficacious.

Glory to God!

In Christ's love,
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Dear Alice,

There is no misunderstanding - period!

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