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Originally Posted by asianpilgrim

Pilgrim,

I think you're kind to say so. In reading it - and the blogger's profile, I don't find anything that would cause me to jump on the bandwagon.

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In trying to better understand the life and person of Joseph it's necessary to address the misunderstandings that're still floatin' around about him -- namely, 1) he was old, and 2) he was previously married and had kids. Happily, we have access to tons of serious Josephological resources (books, articles, videos, etc.) to help us out.

Let's kick things off by dealin' with Joseph's age: He wasn't an old, decrepit man. Studies show that he was most likely only a few years older than Mary.

Studies? What studies? The quoted pieces following give short shrift to the apocryphal texts that depict him as elderly, but instead point to purported monuments of about the same era as those writings which depict him as young. Then, there's the appeal to a lack of decorum that would have attended a January-December match. In fact, such matches - particularly arranged ones - were not uncommon in the early centuries of the Christian era (and still aren't in some parts of the world) because the age of the husband brings with it a financial stability and better bridemoney.

And, I have a lot of problems giving much credence to a person who writes of "Josephology" and, in her profile, tells the reader

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Back in 2002, I dipped my toe into the Web waters when I designed 'n' launched my first personal web site about cats. While I enjoyed that, it was ultimately a bit unsatisfying to limit myself to cat- and animal-related issues. So, after much ponderin', I figured I'd start this site.

So, what'll ya find here? Franciscany things, cats, St. Joseph, book and article reviews, silly things I stumble 'pon ... pretty much whatever enters my noggin'. Y'know, Typical Blog Stuff, with a Franciscan flavor. Hopefully, you won't curse the time ya wasted pokin' around here. :-)

Franciscany? designed 'n' launched, ponderin', 'pon, noggin', pokin' - she apparently thinks apostrophes are terribly cute as a signature stylism (still trying to figure what she thinks she elied in noggin').

The profile reads like a teeny-bopper's facebook chit-chat, which leaves me disinclin' to give a lot of credence to her opinion' on weighty matters.

Sorry to sound like a curmudgeon, but I'm not a major fan of blogs and silliness like that is a big reason why.

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Dear Asian Pilgrim,

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No offense at all. I perfectly agree that too much has been changed. My only plea is that, perhaps, the case for the young St. Joseph should be studied as carefully. If it is really unacceptable, then let there be explanations as to why it should not be accepted.

And in your same post, you also say:

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I agree. One of my country's senior Archbishops once complained to me that some priests now preach that St. Joseph and the Holy Mother of God had marital relations because "they were young, so young, and could not have been chaste".

I would say that you have answered your own question!!

You see, the very same clerics who are promoting this new idea, are also inadvertently promoting a reaction of heresy (denying the ever-virginity of Mary, the Blessed Mother of God!!!)

I find this new preaching very self destructive and very, very unnecessary.

Also, our brother Neil (Irish Melkite) makes an EXCELLENT point about older men married to younger women. This was, indeed the norm in Greece until recently. Infact, it was very difficult at one time to find a couple where the husband wasn't *atleast* ten years older than the wife...An older man, as Neil pointed out, provided the economic stability to be able to guarantee to the girl's parents that he would be able to provide for her (marriages traditionally were arranged or at the very least the parents had to consent first.)

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Your post is priceless. smile Thanks for answering this nonsense. Some people have just too much time on their hands.

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Let's also remember that this was the norm in the West as well. I am always amused when I remember a talk I heard about St. Francis de Sales. It seems that his father had married a young girl of 14 years when he was 43! When St. Francis was about 24 his father had picked out a wife for him, she was also 14!

Let's also not forget that Country Music star Loretta Lynn was married at 13!

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We are free to pray to any saint for any need we may have, whether or not they have a particular cult of intercession for a particular intention associated with them or not.

For instance, if a man is seeking employment, one can pray to St. Joseph, since he was a provider for the Theotokos and our Lord, to St. Nektarios, to St. Xenia of Petersburg, or the Panaghia, etc. Who is to say, except the Lord and His saint, and our own hearts and feeling of closeness to the saint's life, which one should be prayed to over the other?

For marriage, who is one to say that we cannot beseech St. John Kronstadt (married though not a consummated union), Sts. Peter and Fevronia, St. Xenia of Petersburg or the Holy Royal (Romanoff) passion-bearer/martyrs Nicholas and Alexandra, for their help and example as persons having been married while on earth?

St. Joseph the betrothed is one of the few examples of fatherhood we have in the communion of saints, so what is wrong with looking to him, as my very Orthodox priest does, as a good example?!?


Alice, I suggest you read over your comments again. We in the Orthodox Church have traditions with a small "t". I find this individualism unhelpful.
Also in the case of St. John of Kronstadt a little weird. he is not revered for his marital relationship which was out of the oridinary.
We also have St. Neolelia the patron saints of grandmothers.
I see a theme here of the dangers of not knowing our own Orthodox traditions. Maybe that is why some in ignorance turn to Roman catholic or other traditions.

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We are free to pray to any saint for any need we may have, whether or not they have a particular cult of intercession for a particular intention associated with them or not.

For instance, if a man is seeking employment, one can pray to St. Joseph, since he was a provider for the Theotokos and our Lord, to St. Nektarios, to St. Xenia of Petersburg, or the Panaghia, etc. Who is to say, except the Lord and His saint, and our own hearts and feeling of closeness to the saint's life, which one should be prayed to over the other?

For marriage, who is one to say that we cannot beseech St. John Kronstadt (married though not a consummated union), Sts. Peter and Fevronia, St. Xenia of Petersburg or the Holy Royal (Romanoff) passion-bearer/martyrs Nicholas and Alexandra, for their help and example as persons having been married while on earth?

St. Joseph the betrothed is one of the few examples of fatherhood we have in the communion of saints, so what is wrong with looking to him, as my very Orthodox priest does, as a good example?!?


Alice, I suggest you read over your comments again. We in the Orthodox Church have traditions with a small "t". I find this individualism unhelpful.

I am sorry, I don't follow you. What 'individualism' am I promoting that is unhelpful?!?

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I see a theme here of the dangers of not knowing our own Orthodox traditions.
What traditions do I, or other Orthodox here not know?

I welcome correction and/or clarification from any of the clergy here.

Different churches, monasteries, clerics, and different countries look to different saints for different intentions!

What makes me individualistic if I pray to St. Nektarios (patron of cancer, unemployment and other intentions) for employment rather than, let's say, St. Xenia of Petersburg (patron of alchoholism, the unrepentant, those seeking spouses, and *ALSO* those seeking employment)?!?

Again, I really do not follow you and Halia who seem to be implying something I cannot understand. confused

Infact, the saints Halia points out as being the 'Orthodox saints for marriage' don't even come up on the Greek sites for patron saints! We have many saints. No monastic elder I know, no priest I know, no Archbishop I know, has ever said "you MUST pray to this saint for this intention, and no one else"!!

I have experienced many miracles, big and small, in my life attributed to many different saints.

Again, I do not follow either one of you or the attitudes I am sensing. I am a cradle Greek Orthodox, practically raised by the Church (having gone for eight years to an Orthodox parochial school)...this is how we are taught and this is how we believe and this is how we venerate and pray to the saints. Ofcourse, different Orthodox nationalities may feel closer to saints of their own ethnicity, as even different areas of Greece feel particularly closer to saints from their own area, and they can, and do, pray to them for all sorts of intentions.

Forgive me.

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I did not gather that from Byzantine TX post. It sounded more like a projection of his own very personal reaction to the image.

No such thing. I was paraphrasing Constantine Cavarnos in his 2 book series on iconography.

This might be helpful:

http://www.orthodoxinfo.com/phronema/icon_innovate.aspx

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Alice,
Let me centre on your idea of using St. Joseph the Betrothed as an example of father in the Orthodox Church. This is not part of our tradition and I see no need for this straying from our real Orthodox traditions.
Since I am not making myself understood here I will quote from this excellent article that someone drew out attention to.
The statments apply not just to iconography but also to your desire to have St. Joseph the Bethrothed as an "example of fatherhood."
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The first of these Icons, "by [or, more properly, ‘by the hand of’—Editor] Fr. Luke Dingman" and entitled "ST. JOSEPH—Western Version," depicts St. Joseph the Betrothed holding the Christ Child in one hand and a lily in the other. While at face value this depiction may seem innocent enough, such an Icon displays a lack of attention to essential matters of Orthodox doctrine. It is not a traditional Orthodox portrayal of Saint Joseph, as the painter admits, but rather a "Western [read: ‘Roman Catholic’] Version" of the Betrothed of the Mother of God. It evokes the Latin image of "the Holy Family," one of the many theological and liturgical innovations of the Papacy which have adversely influenced Orthodoxy, and an especially recent innovation at that. As one Roman Catholic scholar has remarked, in contrasting the Papist feast centered on the Holy Family to the Christian Feasts of antiquity, "[The Feast of the Holy Family]...is a product of our modern age, the times to which we belong." [2] This familial aspect of the Icon is only enhanced by a caption which proclaims, "Just in time for Father’s Day!" While there is, of course, nothing objectionable per se about a holiday honoring fathers, to connect this secular event with an Icon of this sort is to imply wholly inappropriate things about the relationship between Saint Joseph and Christ. In traditional—i.e., imitative—Orthodox iconography, the Christ Child is properly portrayed, not alone with Saint Joseph, but rather alone with His Mother, thereby stressing the dogma that He is "a Son without a father, Who was begotten of the Father without a mother before the ages." [3] In the final analysis, were we to associate St. Joseph with fatherhood, it would technically be with fathers who are celibate widowers!

In fact, to protect the Faithful from an improper understanding of his fatherly rôle and his relationship to the Theotokos, traditional Orthodox iconography downplays the figure of Saint Joseph (without, of course, denigrating his person). For example, in the Icon of the Nativity of Christ, as Professor Constantine Cavarnos comments, "he is not shown at the central part of the composition, like the Theotokos and the Child, but away, at a corner, in order to emphasize the Scriptural account and the teaching of the Church that Christ was born of a Virgin." [4] Leonid Ouspensky and Vladimir Lossky, in their pivotal work on iconographic theory, make a similar observation: "Another detail emphasis[z]es that in the Nativity of Christ ‘the order of nature is vanquished’—this is Joseph. He is not part of the central group of the Child and His Mother; he is not the father and is emphatically separated from this group." [5] Likewise, in Icons with similar themes, such as the Meeting of the Lord or the Flight into Egypt, Orthodox iconology does not understand Saint Joseph to be the head of some sort of "Holy Family"; rather, he is seen as the Providentially-ordained guardian of the Theotokos and her Divine Child. His humble acceptance and virtuous fulfillment of this rôle are precisely the points of focus in his veneration by the Orthodox Church.

This straightforward, Orthodox characterization of Saint Joseph reflects the spirit of the Eastern Fathers, who are laconic in their references to him. And while the Western Fathers, by contrast, evidence a greater preoccupation with his person, their chief concern is nonetheless the same as that of their Eastern counterparts: viz., the defense of the Ever-Virginity of the Mother of God. Thus, Saint Augustine of Hippo, for example, while noting that, "Joseph...might be called the father of Christ, on account of his being in a certain sense the husband of the mother of Christ...," [6] qualifies this admission by insisting that, in their spousal relationship, "there was no bodily connec tion." [7] Elsewhere he elaborates on this point: "And because of this conjugal fidelity [i.e., their mutual celibacy] they are both deservedly called ‘parents’ of Christ (not only she as His mother, but he as His father, as being her husband), both having been such in mind and purpose, though not in the flesh. But while the one was His father in purpose only, and the other His mother in the flesh also, they were both of them, for all that, only the parents of His humility, not of His sublimity; of His weakness [see II Corinthians 13:4—Editor], not of His divinity." [8] It is in this sense, then, that we must understand the Scriptural statement, "And [He] was subject unto them," [9] concerning Christ’s relationship to Saint Joseph and His Mother.

http://www.orthodoxinfo.com/phronema/icon_innovate.aspx

By individualism, I was speaking in general of the concept of a person (any person) to make up their own ways rather than following Orthodox traditions with a small "t". Let us remember that for most of our Orthodox history the average layperson was illiterate yet I think deep in the Orthodox faith. Why? Because our liturgies, tropars and so forth express our theology. Also our icons. Both our liturgies and iconography have symbolism. A new idea of making St. Joseph the Betrothed an example of fatherhood for Orthodoxy will not find substance in the liturgical tradition.

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Originally Posted by Fr David Straut
St Joseph, according to the Tradition of the Church was a very old man, while the Mother of God was quite young, perhaps thirteen or fourteen, at their betrothal and marriage. And since the Mother of God is ever-virgin, and no marital relations ever took place between her and St Joseph ...
One of the sources for the tradition of the Righteous Joseph's advanced age is the fact that the OT gives us the story of David and Abishag as a type of Joseph and Mary:
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When King David was old and advanced in years, though they spread covers over him he could not keep warm.
His servants therefore said to him, "Let a young virgin be sought to attend you, lord king, and to nurse you. If she sleeps with your royal majesty, you will be kept warm."
So they sought for a beautiful girl throughout the territory of Israel, and found Abishag the Shunamite, whom they brought to the king.
The maiden, who was very beautiful, nursed the king and cared for him, but the king did not have relations with her. (1Kings 1:1-4)
Of course, the fact that he was able to make the journey to Egypt and back (and then live another 15 years or so) suggests that, at the very least, he was in excellent shape for an old man! wink

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Let me centre on your idea of using St. Joseph the Betrothed as an example of father in the Orthodox Church. This is not part of our tradition and I see no need for this straying from our real Orthodox traditions.


Which of the councils decreed St. Joseph to not be betrothed of the Mother of God and thus not a fitting earthly guardian/foster father for the Savior??? Simply quoting orthodoxinfo.com would not seem to be the most compelling argument.

Can iconographic style or convention necessarily be entrenched as theology? I think that depends. Apparently not always as St. Andrei Rublev clearly showed with his Trinity, as previous icons had Abraham and Sarah nearby. Certainly the Council of One Hundred Chapters did not when it proclaimed Rublev's Trinity as an example of Orthodox iconography. Likewise the Mother of God has been painted numerous times without Christ especially in later Russian iconography. Are all of those to be rejected?

The Troparion says "Verily, Joseph the betrothed..." If (a) he was betrothed as Scripture and our liturgical texts teach us, and (b) a virtuous man as Scripture also teaches us than it would seem quite sensible to believe (c) he was a worthy guardian, foster father, whatever term works to clearly not imply a biological father for the Son born of the Virgin, the Virgin to whom he was betrothed (as well as would seem a worthy protector of his betrothed). Otherwise what did he do? Ignore them? Not ever speak to them? Not the sort of thing one would expect from a model of the betrothed.


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Can iconographic style or convention necessarily be entrenched as theology?


Yes. That is the point of iconography to present theology.
Look at the icons of the Mother of God and then look at the Akathist to the Mother of God. Many of the themes of these icons are taken from images/symbols in the Akathist.

I quoted the article because it shows us that St. Joseph the Betrothed was not a typical father. The article very wisely shows the dangers of taking other traditions and trying to graft them onto Orthodox traditions. That is why that icon of St. Joseph the Betrothed in the article does not work theologically as an orthodox icon and why it is not an Orthodox icon.

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I would like to read where in the Canons of the 7 Ecumenical Councils (and the Quinisext Council) where the explicit rules of Iconography are. Could someone please cite me the Council and Canon so I don't have to read through them all? This would help so I can watch my children today.

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I can hardly see how this:

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succumb[ing] to a kind of Christian Kamasutra, whether "baptized" by overt sectarians or by those coming from a sectarian background.


Emphasis mine

I have seen paintings from the Kamasutra and this is not even close!

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Yes. That is the point of iconography to present theology. Look at the icons of the Mother of God and then look at the Akathist to the Mother of God. Many of the themes of these icons are taken from images/symbols in the Akathist.


But "the point of iconography to present theology" was not my point or assertion - the idea that iconography presents theology is primal, obvious, and assumed, especially to any readers of St. John of Damascus or St. Theodore the Studite.

My question was rather "Can iconographic style or convention necessarily be entrenched as theology? " My question was rather focused on the nature of iconographic convention, and more precisely does an entrenched iconographic style or convention (style and convention, and not iconography itself) by its nature define a dogmatic interpretation?

Many 19th and early 20th century Russian icons present in Church (or even offered for frequent sale by Sofrino) while entrenched in iconographic style and convention for now over two centuries, have often been criticized (mostly by converts to Orthodoxy) because of 'westernized' depictions. They are still sold regularly by none other than the Patriarchal religious goods supply (Sofrino) and many of these images are very popular in Russian homes.

I also do not believe that simply because an iconographic convention exists that it makes that convention de facto theology or dogma. My example of Rublev's Trinity is a good example. From the original intent and convention of the icon as the visitation of the angels to Abraham and Sarah it moved to a mystical depiction solely of the Holy Trinity, which had not been depicted in that dramatic of a way until after Rublev's movement away from the convention of a purely historical Old Testament event.


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The statments apply not just to iconography but also to your desire to have St. Joseph the Bethrothed as an "example of fatherhood."


Dear brother in Christ, Miller:

First of all, I think that this thread has taken on two different topics...one is of iconographic innovations and their dangers, (I do agree that any embrace could be misconstrued and dangerous) and the other of St. Joseph as a model of (foster) fatherhood.

In response to St. Joseph as a model of foster fatherhood, and the priest I know who praised him for being a good foster father: Perhaps you would prefer, and it would make you more comfortable if we use the word 'caretaker' instead of 'father' or 'foster father'?!?

As for not wanting Orthodox to look to him as a good example, can you propose any other examples of a saint taking care of a child from infancy onwards, working to support the child, etc.?

There aren't many...and there aren't many who were given charge over the Lord Himself by God the Father.

Besides, how was our Lord raised? Was the Virgin Mary a single mother with St. Joseph just hanging around without helping or talking? I think not.

Doesn't Scripture tell us that St. Joseph helped the Virgin Mary look for Jesus when he disappeared and was found in the temple? Isn't that something a good foster father/caretaker of a child would do?

That is why a very Orthodox (cradle) priest, the father of four, says that he likes St. Joseph, and feels that maybe he is a bit overlooked in the Orthodox tradition. I see nothing wrong with that. Granted we know little about him, but he had a very special place in this world, chosen by God.

That is all that many of us Orthodox are saying. No one is changing scripture! No one is changing holy tradition of St. Joseph being known as 'the betrothed'. No one is advocating for new iconography. No one is making St. Joseph unchaste, and no one is making St. Joseph a young man, are we?

Perhaps you are reading past what I, or others, are saying as a reaction against Catholicism?

Last time I looked, the Orthodox here were not embracing any of the Western Roman Catholic traditions, but we can speak about parts of them favorably, can we not? Are we not allowed to do that? Is being Orthodox purely about being AGAINST the Roman Catholic Church in every possible and minute way? I agree that sometimes venerations can be taken too far and out of context in the West. That is not for me to judge as long as they are not heretical. Easterners and Westerners have always thought and approached all things differently, including religion.

I understand that perhaps certain ethnic Orthodox have more baggage than the Greeks do for historical reasons. But let's not put words into people's mouths and intentions into people's hearts. I feel that is what you are doing in regard to my posts.

A good part of being Eastern Orthodox means sticking to Holy Tradition. If you had carefully read my posts for what I was actually saying, and not what you wanted to think I was saying, you would have seen that one of my posts advocated for our Holy tradition about St. Joseph's relatively older age, and spoke against those in the West who are abandoning it in favor of new and dangerous ideas (ie: making St. Joseph a teenager) which may give birth to great heresy.

I think that we all need to read ALL posts carefully, in sequence, and not respond with knee jerk reactions to one of them or parts of them and not assume things which aren't there. Thankyou.

Forgive me,
Alice

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