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From time to time we learn about sex-related scandals involving public figures, including both clergy and laity. In our own lives, we too fall short of the ideal of chastity which our Lord teaches (for example in Matthew 5:28 [ biblegateway.com]). According to this CNA article, Dr. Alice von Hildebrand argues that "reverence is the key to purity." Today's society is saturated with discussions of and references to sex. This means that something which properly belongs to the most private and intimate sphere of human life tends to become commercialized and trivialized. Thus, we are not only struggling against our own individual fallen nature, but we are struggling against strong forces in society for which we ourselves are at least partly responsibile. Indeed, these forces in our society are getting stronger and stronger. What, short of entering a monastery, can we do? Christopher West’s ideas on sexuality ignore ‘tremendous dangers,’ Alice von Hildebrand says
Denver, Colo., May 12, 2009 / 12:48 am (CNA).- Renowned Catholic thinker Dr. Alice von Hildebrand has criticized Theology of the Body speaker Christopher West, saying his approach has become too self-assured. She criticized his presentations as irreverent and insensitive to the “tremendous dangers” of concupiscence.
Also cautious of West’s remarks on his recent interview with ABC television were Mary Shivanandan and Fr. José Granados, both Catholic authors and theologians.
The news segment showed him calling for Catholics to complete “what the sexual revolution began.” He also described “very profound” historical connections between Hugh Hefner and Pope John Paul II.
West spoke to CNA on Friday, claiming the report somewhat sensationalized his views. He also denied several characterizations conveyed by the news story, explaining that he believed Hefner to be right in rejecting “the disease of Puritanism” but radically wrong in beginning the “pornographic revolution.”
He had told ABC that Hefner had a "yearning," an "ache" and a "longing" for love, union and intimacy.
In a Monday interview CNA spoke about West with Dr. Alice von Hildebrand, a Catholic philosopher and theologian who is professor emerita of Hunter College of the City University of New York.
Dr. von Hildebrand said she knew the “gist” of Pope John Paul II’s Theology of the Body and believed it was “very indebted” to her husband Dietrich von Hildebrand’s 1927 book “In Defense of Purity.” She said there is obviously an “abysmal difference” between the views shared by her husband and John Paul II and those presented by Christopher West.
Reporting that she had seen CNA’s follow-up interview with West, Dr. Von Hildebrand was very critical of the speaker.
“My feeling is that Christopher West has become famous because he started discussing the Theology of the Body, which is extremely appealing topic. The difficulty is that, in the meantime, he became so famous that I do believe he has become much too self-assured and has lost sight of the extreme sensitivity of the topic.”
This is “very troubling” because what she calls the “intimate sphere” is something “very mysterious, very profound, something that has a direct relationship with God.”
“My feeling is that his vocabulary and his way of approaching it totally lacks reverence.”
“Reverence is the key to purity,” she told CNA.” The intimate sphere “is not a topic of public discussion” but is “extremely serious.”
“It seems to me that his presentation, his vocabulary, the vulgarity of things that he uses are things that simply indicate that even though he might have good intentions he has derailed and is doing a lot of harm.”
She said people should not forget that we have been “profoundly affected” by original sin.
“In paradise there was perfect harmony between Adam and Eve. There was no concupiscence.”
“After original sin, not only were we separated from God and condemned to losing eternity. On top of it, every single human faculty was affected. Our intelligence was darkened. Our will was weakened. And all of a sudden, we had the dreadful experience of something called concupiscence.
Before the Fall, there was no inner temptation to impurity between Adam and Eve even though they were naked, she explained. After they sinned, the two started to look at one another with concupiscence.
The Fall had consequences that are “so serious” that it was only the Redemption and the grace of God could remedy.
The fight against concupiscence is “not an easy process,” Dr. von Hildebrand continued. “It is something that calls for holiness, which very few of us achieve. It is a sheer illusion to believe that by some sort of new technique we can find the solution to the problem.”
While one can lead a holy life in marriage, she said to become a saint is “a long and difficult process that calls for a spirit of penance, a readiness to sacrifice.”
“The tragedy of original sin is that all the beautiful male qualities of strength, courage, objectivity, nobility, a chivalrous attitude towards women, degenerated. The danger created by original sin is that many men use their strength and become brutal and abuse women or look at women as mere objects of pleasure.
“Eve was also profoundly affected by original sin,” she added.
“To my mind the conflict between man and woman can only be healed by striving for holiness,” she said. “There are many things Christopher West does not mention.”
Additionally, she charged that West does not mention the Old Testament figures who fell to sexual sin: David, King of Israel, who was blessed in “an extraordinary way” but ordered the murder of the husband of a woman with whom David committed adultery.
“Adulteries lead to murder. It is one of the most abominable stories you can imagine,” she said, explaining the Prophet Nathan’s rebuke of David led to the composition of Psalm 50.
She said it was upsetting to her as a youth to learn that a young man who prayed for “the straight and honest heart so that I may serve my people” went on to have 750 concubines.
“How can you be so good when you’re twenty, and lead such an abominable life when you’re seventy?” she asked. “As far as I can tell, this is something that Christopher West forgets, in this sphere which is extremely dangerous.”
She reported that a priest friend of hers had told her 90 percent of the sins that men accuse themselves of involve the Sixth Commandment against adultery.
Christopher West’s approach makes him forget that sex is “an extreme danger.” Though sex can be sanctified, that sanctification implies “a humility, a spirit of reverence, and totally avoiding the vulgarity that he uses in his language.”
“I’m shocked and horrified by the words that he uses. His mere mention of Hugh Hefner is to my mind an abomination.”
Mary Shivanandan, a theologian who authored the book “Crossing the Threshold of Love: A New Vision of Marriage in the Light of John Paul II’s Anthropology,” was also critical of West’s remarks.
“The sublime teaching of John Paul II’s theology of sexuality is not well served by West’s comparison to Hugh Hefner and his playboy bunnies,” she told CNA in a Monday e-mail. “The late pope had a profound reverence for God’s plan for human love, which such a comparison, no matter how well intentioned, can only diminish and degrade.”
Also providing comment for CNA was Fr. José Granados, a theologian who co-authored with Supreme Knight of Columbus Carl Andersen a book on John Paul II’s Theology of the Body titled “Called to Love.”
Fr. Granados said West’s suggestion that John Paul II took the sexual revolution a step further was “highly inadequate and open to serious misunderstanding.” He explained that Puritanism shares with pornography a negative vision of the body, viewing it without reference to the dignity of the person and to God’s plan for man.
“It is deprived of its symbolism and its language,” he said. While Puritanism attempts to silence the body and its urges, the sexual revolution exalts them “as an absolute.”
“Pornography is in no sense an attempt to recover the beauty of the body and sexuality, but a sign of despair regarding this beauty and the possibility of finding meaning in human love,” he said.
John Paul II’s Theology of the Body recovers “the meaning of the body” with reference to love and to man and God, Fr. Granados told CNA.
“The Pope’s proposal is not just about sexuality, but about the truth of love as the foundation of the person’s dignity and the meaning of reality; and about the family as the place where the person finds himself and his way towards happiness.
“Moreover, one of the results of the sexual revolution is precisely the pansexualism that surrounds our society. We cannot respond with a different kind of pansexualism, with a sort of ‘Catholic sexual revolution,’ which in the end promotes a similar obsession with sex, even if ‘holy’.” SourceChristopher West’s ideas on sexuality ignore ‘tremendous dangers,’ Alice von Hildebrand says [ catholicnewsagency.com]
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There are so many problems with what all of these people are saying that I don't know where to begin. I'm not a fan of Mr. West's writings (I have looked at some of them) and I do not accept Pope John Paul II's theology of the body uncritically. At the same time, I think that Dr. Hildebrand's remarks come off as being somewhat hysterical and I also think that her characterization of the fall is much too Jansenistic/Protestant for my taste.
All of that being said, I think that what Dr. Hildebrand needs to realize is that in modern, western societies, the culture is so insaturated with the erotic that we must discuss sexuality openly, otherwise, the only message that people will get is the one given to them by capitalistic society (through the media). As far as sex being this supremely private and intimate thing, I would like to see some evidence that this is so. Nothing is private. Every action is a social action. In times past, societies understood this and so they made rules so that those who engage in sex are held responsible for the consequences (this is, after all, what marriage is about from a socio-historical point of view). The institution of marriage serves to define rights and responsibilities with regard to offspring and property. The question of internal purity of mind is not relevant.
In the past, the relatively low (relative to our present day) rate of outright fornication and adultery (and divorce) was the consequence of the fact that most people had neither the time nor the means to engage in such sins. I'm willing to bet that if one did a careful study, one would see that sexual immorality flourished more among the upper classes (the leisure classes) who had the time for such things and the means to deal with any unpleasant consequences. Now, we live in a society where far more people have the time and the means to engage in sexual sin. And with the delayed age of marriage, it becomes more difficult to remain chaste.
But, the cat has been let out of the bag and it is not clear how it is going to be put back in. I would argue that this high degree of divorce, sexual immorality, abortion, pick&choose religion, etc. is a consequence of liberal democracy. Most people do what they do because they are compelled to do so. Once people are given a high degree of freedom (in the sense of personal choice) and attain sufficient wealth to do the things they want to do, then we see this rise in social problems related to sex.
Joe
P.S. the puritans were not anti-body. It was the Victorians with their obsession with cleanliness who were obsessed with sex and the body. One can find erotic poetry among Puritan authors.
Also, Dr. Hildebrand completely misreads scripture when she gets it in her head and that David was pure in heart in youth and lost that purity (as Solomon did) by contracting hundreds of wives. The fact of the matter is that the hundreds of wives of these kings had nothing to do with satiating lust and everything to do with making political alliances. King A wants to enter into a covenant with King B. So King A marries King B's daughter to seal the covenant (King B is much less likely to attack King A if his daughter is the queen). And polygamy was also practiced because it was more economically efficient and allowed a man to produce more offspring. It had nothing to do with satiating lust.
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I have heard Dr. Hildebrand and her husband speak on television, and was always entranced by their intellectualism... They were, ofcourse, a product of a different age and a different society (European society was quite prim and proper in the past, as was American society to a certain degree, and the European culture they were born into was very class conscious). Anyone who would have discussed such matters, as sex, as openly as it is discussed today, would have been considered a crass member of the lowest classes--not even a fisherman or shepherd would have!! On the other hand, Joe, makes a very good point here: In the past, the relatively low (relative to our present day) rate of outright fornication and adultery (and divorce) was the consequence of the fact that most people had neither the time nor the means to engage in such sins. I'm willing to bet that if one did a careful study, one would see that sexual immorality flourished more among the upper classes (the leisure classes) who had the time for such things and the means to deal with any unpleasant consequences. Now, we live in a society where far more people have the time and the means to engage in sexual sin. And with the delayed age of marriage, it becomes more difficult to remain chaste. So many men seem to have adulterous affairs at an age where they are finally financially well off..(and too many of them would not have gotten there had it not been for their wives working them through school, or advising them in a myriad of capacities in their business and careers).. Ofcourse, society blames this on 'mid life crisis', but if one has other 'crises' such as financial burdens, illness, etc., to deal with, one would not have the 'leisure' time of seeking out adultery, nor would the man be such a great candidate (or 'catch') for the younger women he usually seeks out for an affair and second wife... So, I agree with Joe very much on this point he makes about too much leisure time playing a role in sexual sin and adultery. I also would add in to the equation something BOB has said on occasion, there are no more societal, community restraints as to what is acceptable and what is not ( being ostracized by one's peers and family when one behaves in an unacceptable manner) as they used to exist. So, while perhaps men and women did not always act out of their own personal code of ethics and morality, they were, like children, too scared of the consequences to 'misbehave'. Infact, I remember my uncle, of blessed memory, who was an executive in a large American company in the 1950's...he married my aunt right out of college, and because he was married, he was able to advance in his career. Only a married man in those days could, and it was equally important that he had a nice wife and children. Indeed, as I have noted in my own posts in the past, the age which young men and women marry today (due to immaturity, schooling, advanced schooling, finances, etc.) which Joe points out, are societal realities which help promote sexual activity in the unmarried... This is an interesting and very important discussion. Alice
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