Francois,
The priest I spoke with is OCA, and for me if I become Orthodox that is where I would go. In fact, I do with there is a Catholic OCA, you know, a Church that is not heavily ethnic or at least ethnic but local. I am not North American (I'm in Canada) but at least I can accept the culture her because this is where I live. It's hard to blend into a culture which is neither your background nor the place where you live. This is not to take anything against those people, they have every right to preserve their culture and their faith. But its difficult for the likes of me who is a foreigner. In fact, I am a foreigner twice, on the land and in the Church.