Dear Friends,
As I've been away sulking in a corner, I just came upon these last posts on this subject

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I don't see how indulgences can be taken to be about "punishment."
They truly are about leading us to live lives purified of sin, sinfulness and the "cosmic damage" our sins truly do cause.
I think one way out of the abyss here, if I may use a term like that, is to see a distinction between actual "sins" and "sinfulness."
Confession, fruits of repentance, indulgences et al. have everything to do with the sins we commit.
Over time, they may temper our inclination to commit sins.
But our "sinfulness" is something that is a kind of "state" that we are in as a result of Original Sin. This remains with us for us to combat and slowly raise via the process of Theosis throughout our lives.
Indulgences, even plenary indulgences, do not and cannot take away our need for ceaseless prayer, meditation, spiritual reading to deepen our divinizing union with God in Christ with the Holy Spirit.
They are about making amends for specific sins in our lives via "spiritual health."
How does one obtain a plenary indulgence today?
Reading scripture for half an hour, praying the Rosary in a Church or oratory etc.
These are practices that the Church has designed to help form life-long habits of obtaining Grace.
Indulgences are about helping us put the consequences of specific sins behind us so that we can get on with Theosis and living to glorify God incessantly in our lives and hearts - and be worried about our guilt in having committed specific sins less.
Dolly, how about that?
Alex